Do Not Compare Yourself

Never compare yourself to others | Do Not Compare Yourself |

 

It is better to face every situation in your life as a challenge, but it is not good to take it as your competition with others. You shouldn't see anyone as your competitor because you don't have the same dreams, goals, ambitions or brains. Even God or you can say that nature has its own different point of view.

 

For example:

 

A lion cannot behave like a donkey and a donkey cannot be a lion, as both have different perspectives to look at things.

 

On the same note we can say that the thinking power of two different persons separates them from each other.

 

Every person in this world is different from other but everyone has a special quality or point of view. That quality or view classified them from one another. God gives different quality to every person, i.e., if some people are good at singing, then some are good at dancing.

 

Even if you compare yourself with your closest friends, you will find a lot of qualities in yourself or your friends. If you look in any corporate there are different types of places. So, depending on our quality and work we get what we get in our life.

 

So, don't compare yourself with others as it just increases your anxiety level and jealousy. If you want to achieve a higher goal or position in your life at which you see others, you need to hone their skills in your behaviour and attitude.

 

Why you should never compare yourself to others

 

When you compare yourself to others, it misdirects your attention. You always follow that personality and waste your precious time and energy.

 

Once you have entered this comparison zone, you always compare everything done or actions done by others. Once you find the difference between your act and that of others you create yourself and sometimes it is a very harmful situation.

 

How can you avoid the comparison?

 

Here are some tips to help you stop comparing yourself to others-

 

1.    Remind yourself every now and then that money is not everything in this world. It can bring you lots of happiness, but it can't buy everything.

 

2.    Try to focus on your goals not others.

 

3.    Always remember that now the body is perfect in this world. Everyone has developed their quality by working very hard.

 

4.    Avoid the company of people who are involved in wrongdoings. Or you can say who will degrade your good quality.

 

5.    Spend valuable time with your family and try to understand their need.

 

6.    Always celebrate the success of others and try to be inspired by them.

 

7.    Be always generous and genuine.

 

In the end we can only say that you should never compare your life with others because there is no comparison between Sun and Moon. They shine according to their time.

 

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